1.0Gender Spectrum Loungehttps://lounge.genderspectrum.orgtransandhappyhttps://lounge.genderspectrum.org/members/transandhappy/richactivity600338<blockquote class="wp-embedded-content bp-activity-item"><p>Hi, My name is Chris and I am an Mtf Trans, my pronouns are They/Them, and I’m just really nervous about my journey. Ever since I was little, I have always loved dressing up and being able to show who I am. I was always made to cut my hair short Like a “Boy” but I always used to get fabric and pretend it was hair. I never really understood what I was but over time I kind of understood more and more that this is me and no one is going to change me. My mom has always supported me but since I have two houses, I was really scared to come out to my dad. He ended up being fine with it and that made me happy. I go to a Performing Arts school and most of the people who go there are a member of the LGBTQ community, EVEN THE TEACHERS! 🙂 I’m not allowed to take hormones or surgery until I’m older. But I am happy that until then, I can wear clothes that make me happy. I have been growing my hair out for two years now and it’s to my shoulders. Now the thing that I’m sad about is that my grandma( who I love with all my heart) Won’t listen to me. I told her that I need to be called Chris not Christopher and that my pronouns are they/them. I told her that even though I was born in a male body I feel like I am a girl. I came out to my best friend and to my surprise not only were they okay with it, They came out to me! So I am new to the Gender Spectrum and I was wondering if anybody would be willing to be my friend or talk with me? Again I am a 14yr old MTF Transgender and my pronouns are They/Them. Thank you! 🙂<span class="activity-read-more" id="activity-read-more-16572"><a href="https://lounge.genderspectrum.org/activity-2/p/16572/" onclick="top.location.href='https://lounge.genderspectrum.org/activity-2/p/16572/'" rel="nofollow">[Read more]</a></span></p> - transandhappy (@transandhappy) <a href="https://lounge.genderspectrum.org/activity-2/p/16572/">March 3, 2021</a></blockquote> <script type='text/javascript'> <!--//--><![CDATA[//><!-- /*! This file is auto-generated */ !function(c,d){"use strict";var e=!1,n=!1;if(d.querySelector)if(c.addEventListener)e=!0;if(c.wp=c.wp||{},!c.wp.receiveEmbedMessage)if(c.wp.receiveEmbedMessage=function(e){var t=e.data;if(t)if(t.secret||t.message||t.value)if(!/[^a-zA-Z0-9]/.test(t.secret)){for(var r,a,i,s=d.querySelectorAll('iframe[data-secret="'+t.secret+'"]'),n=d.querySelectorAll('blockquote[data-secret="'+t.secret+'"]'),o=0;o<n.length;o++)n[o].style.display="none";for(o=0;o<s.length;o++)if(r=s[o],e.source===r.contentWindow){if(r.removeAttribute("style"),"height"===t.message){if(1e3<(i=parseInt(t.value,10)))i=1e3;else if(~~i<200)i=200;r.height=i}if("link"===t.message)if(a=d.createElement("a"),i=d.createElement("a"),a.href=r.getAttribute("src"),i.href=t.value,i.host===a.host)if(d.activeElement===r)c.top.location.href=t.value}}},e)c.addEventListener("message",c.wp.receiveEmbedMessage,!1),d.addEventListener("DOMContentLoaded",t,!1),c.addEventListener("load",t,!1);function t(){if(!n){n=!0;for(var e,t,r=-1!==navigator.appVersion.indexOf("MSIE 10"),a=!!navigator.userAgent.match(/Trident.*rv:11\./),i=d.querySelectorAll("iframe.wp-embedded-content"),s=0;s<i.length;s++){if(!(e=i[s]).getAttribute("data-secret"))t=Math.random().toString(36).substr(2,10),e.src+="#?secret="+t,e.setAttribute("data-secret",t);if(r||a)(t=e.cloneNode(!0)).removeAttribute("security"),e.parentNode.replaceChild(t,e)}}}}(window,document); //--><!]]> </script><iframe style="max-width:100%" sandbox="allow-top-navigation allow-scripts" security="restricted" src="https://lounge.genderspectrum.org/members/transandhappy/activity/16572/?embed=true" width="600" height="338" title="Embedded Activity Item" frameborder="0" marginwidth="0" marginheight="0" scrolling="no" class="wp-embedded-content"></iframe>